For many Nigerians, the thought of leaving the country for greener pastures dominates their waking moments. The concept of japa—a mass exodus in search of better opportunities abroad—has transformed into a collective dream for millions seeking stability and prosperity. But as with all things, there is another side to this glittering coin – The Realities of Japa

The allure of japa is undeniable. It has helped countless families live healthier, more fulfilled lives. Many Nigerians abroad have secured well-paying jobs that not only sustain their families but also allow them to send financial support back home. Remittances from diaspora Nigerians, estimated at $25 billion annually by the World Bank, have become a vital part of the country’s economy.

Yet, the reality for some migrants paints a more complicated picture. Behind the stories of success are tales of family dislocation and cultural disconnect. Many who leave for foreign lands rarely return, even for significant events like funerals. As family bonds weaken, the cultural ties to home become frayed.

Take, for instance, a recent incident in Lagos where the children of a deceased woman in a highbrow neighborhood returned to Nigeria only to fly her remains back to their country of residence. According to PR consultant John Kokome, such cases reflect the upbringing and value systems instilled by parents. He believes that while some children may eventually seek to reconnect with their roots, many remain detached due to their upbringing abroad.

The japa phenomenon highlights deeper systemic issues plaguing Nigeria. Economic instability, lack of opportunities, and poor governance have fueled the mass exodus. Social media further amplifies the allure, showcasing the seemingly glamorous lives of those who have successfully migrated. However, the reality for many migrants is far from glamorous.

Migrants often face cultural shocks, language barriers, and the loneliness of being far from home. Without proper documentation, many endure exploitation and abuse, unable to access healthcare or stable jobs. For some, the dream of a better life turns into a harsh struggle for survival.

A Lagos-based businesswoman, Temilade, shared her story of growing up without her mother, who had migrated abroad. “Mum never came back until we were in our 30s,” she recounted. “Grandma raised us, and when she passed, Mum didn’t return—just sent money.” Her brother, now married abroad, hasn’t visited Nigeria in years. For many like him, the pull of foreign opportunities outweighs any emotional ties to home.

This disconnection doesn’t just affect individual families—it has broader implications for Nigeria’s development. The departure of highly educated and skilled individuals drains the country of its talent pool, leaving behind a gap in human capital. While remittances provide a temporary economic boost, they cannot replace the expertise and innovation that emigrants take with them.

Publicist Olutayo Irantiola points out that many migrants stay abroad not out of preference but necessity. “Nobody wants to return as a failure,” he explained. “They stay to secure documentation, build careers, and provide for their families before even considering coming back home.”

This mass exodus also changes the dynamics of families left behind. Elderly parents often become sojourners, traveling between countries to visit their children and grandchildren or, in some cases, being denied visas to leave Nigeria at all.

The japa movement underscores a critical need for systemic reform in Nigeria. Creating a stable economy, improving infrastructure, and fostering opportunities for young people are essential to stemming the tide. Without these changes, the dream of a better life will continue to drive Nigerians to seek greener pastures abroad—sometimes at a cost they didn’t anticipate.

As we celebrate the successes of Nigerians thriving abroad, let us also reflect on the sacrifices and challenges that come with the japa journey. It’s a reminder that while leaving may open doors, staying to build a better Nigeria is a dream worth fighting for.

(Original reporting inspired by Seyi John Salau and insights from ijapa.ng.)

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