Disclaimer: The individual in this story has requested to remain anonymous.
An Interview with Olusoji
iJapa.ng: Can you tell us a bit about yourself and what motivated you to leave Nigeria?
Olusoji: My name is Olusoji, and I’m a 43-year-old Project Manager specializing in Business and IT. I was based in Lagos, Nigeria, before I made the decision to leave. The primary reasons for my move were health and security concerns. I lost my first daughter when she was just two months old because doctors failed to identify health issues that should have been detected through prenatal tests. Despite paying heavily for these tests, I later discovered they were never conducted. Additionally, a violent cult clash occurred in Ajah, where slain cultists were left on the road for 48 hours before authorities cleared the scene. These traumatic events deeply influenced my decision to seek a safer and more stable environment for my family.
iJapa.ng: How did you prepare for your move?
Olusoji: The move was planned well in advance, giving me 18 months to prepare. During this time, I saved a significant amount of money. Fortunately, I had family already settled in the country I intended to move to, which provided a relatively smooth transition. Emotionally, I felt ready to start afresh and distance myself from anything related to Nigeria. The biggest challenge was obtaining the necessary paperwork for relocation, but this process was relatively smooth compared to what others experience. Finances were not a problem, and having a place to stay helped with my transition and integration.
iJapa.ng: Can you describe your journey from Nigeria to your new country?
Olusoji: The journey went smoothly overall, except for the persistent requests for cash gifts by immigration officials at MMA once they realized it was a relocation trip. The flight to our transfer destination was without incident, as was the transfer to the final flight. Upon arriving at my flight transfer location, an electronic monitor detected something in my hand luggage, leading to a physical search. Each item was scanned, and my leather slippers triggered the scanner. They were swiped, but nothing significant was found, and I was released without further issues.
iJapa.ng: What were the initial challenges you faced upon arrival, and how did you overcome them?
Olusoji: The initial challenges included getting a job, obtaining a driver’s license, and understanding the credit system. I enrolled in a bridging program sponsored by the government, which provided invaluable guidance on job searching and interviewing techniques. Additionally, I hired a driving instructor to familiarize myself with the local driving rules. Learning about the credit system took time and effort, but after two years, I felt comfortable enough to start using credit.
iJapa.ng: How has your experience been so far in your new country?
Olusoji: Initially, the transition was quite challenging due to numerous cultural differences. I encountered some passive aggressiveness at work, which was daunting. However, my Nigerian resilience and determination kept me going strong. Despite these initial hurdles, my overall work experience has been highly satisfactory. On the social front, my life has primarily centered around my family and the few friends I’ve made. Spiritually, I’ve grown closer to God, and it’s been eye-opening to observe the differences in how Christianity is practiced here compared to Nigeria.
iJapa.ng: What advice would you give to Nigerians considering Japa?
Olusoji: Before embarking on your journey, thorough planning is essential. Reassess your plans multiple times and avoid making assumptions. Be mentally prepared for challenges and setbacks. Seek out and connect with communities, whether based on faith or other interests. Building new relationships beyond your immediate Nigerian community can be enriching. Take advantage of government programs designed to assist newcomers. Lastly, be open to unlearning negative experiences from Nigeria and embrace the opportunity to learn new things in your new home.
iJapa.ng: How do you intend to contribute to the growth of Nigeria now that you’re abroad?
Olusoji: My biggest dream is to create affordable housing options that are truly within people’s reach, making quality housing affordable for everyone. I intend to initiate housing projects accessible to those with limited means, exploring innovative building methods to ensure affordability.
iJapa.ng: Thank you for sharing your story, Olusoji. Do you have any final thoughts or recommendations?
Olusoji: If I had the opportunity to migrate again, I would have done it at a younger age. No regrets, though. For those planning to migrate, prioritize early decision-making and thorough planning. Conduct independent research to gather comprehensive information and be prepared for all possibilities.
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