At iJapa.ng, we are dedicated to sharing the unique and inspiring stories of Nigerians who have ventured abroad, shedding light on their experiences, challenges, and successes. Today, we feature the story of Kem Kem (name changed for anonymity), a 26-year-old client relationship professional who moved from Lagos to China.
iJapa.ng: Where were you based in Nigeria before you moved?
Kem Kem: I was based in Lagos, Nigeria.
iJapa.ng: What were the primary reasons that motivated you to leave Nigeria?
Kem Kem: The main reason was that my income was too low compared to the cost of living. I had a strong desire to explore and achieve more in life.
iJapa.ng: Did any specific events or circumstances influence your decision?
Kem Kem: No specific event influenced my decision. I just had a strong desire to explore and do more.
iJapa.ng: How did you prepare for your move (financially, emotionally, logistically)?
Kem Kem: I had a friend who helped with the admission line for a scholarship. I prepared financially for several months with my savings. Emotionally, I was ready for the adventure and the challenges that lay ahead.
iJapa.ng: What challenges did you face during the preparation phase?
Kem Kem: I desired to have more savings for the trip, but my income was low, so I had to ask my parents for help.
iJapa.ng: Can you describe your journey from Nigeria to your new country?
Kem Kem: The journey was smooth. I had printed some words from Google Translate to ask for help at the help desk at the airport on arrival, and it proved very useful.
iJapa.ng: Were there any unexpected events or surprises during your travel?
Kem Kem: Yes. Ordinary people helped me easily, and I found out that young Chinese people could communicate in English.
iJapa.ng: What were the initial challenges you faced upon arrival?
Kem Kem: The tap water was hard, and I felt it on my skin when I showered. Reading signs was tough too since many had no English translation.
iJapa.ng: How did you overcome these challenges?
Kem Kem: I learned the language and asked questions. People are more willing to help when you ask.
iJapa.ng: How has your experience been so far in your new country (in terms of work, social life, etc.)?
Kem Kem: It has been very good. The ease of living and affordability of basic things are much better than back home.
iJapa.ng: What are some of the significant differences you’ve noticed compared to life in Nigeria?
Kem Kem: Basic things are affordable, and the overall ease of living is higher.
iJapa.ng: What advice would you give to Nigerians considering Japa?
Kem Kem: Be open to the new culture. Manage your expectations and don’t criticize the culture. By default, we are arrogant in nature. When you are in a new space, stay confident and be open to learning. Don’t project your thinking on others in a new environment. Watch and learn.
iJapa.ng: Are there any specific resources or tips that helped you which you think others should know about?
Kem Kem: Learning the language fluently and studying hard to come out with flying colors is crucial. Also, always ask questions; people are more willing to help than you might expect.
iJapa.ng: Could you provide an estimate of the total cost of your migration (travel, visas, initial living expenses, etc.)?
Kem Kem: It was a little over 10 million Naira.
iJapa.ng: What financial advice would you give to others planning to migrate?
Kem Kem: Save, save, save. Make sure you have enough funds to support yourself initially.
iJapa.ng: What are your future plans and aspirations in your new country?
Kem Kem: To learn the language fluently, study hard, and excel in my field.
iJapa.ng: Do you have any plans to return to Nigeria someday?
Kem Kem: Maybe.
iJapa.ng: If you had the opportunity to migrate again, what would you do differently?
Kem Kem: I would leave Nigeria at a younger age.
iJapa.ng: Are there any lessons learned that you think are crucial for others to know?
Kem Kem: Be open-minded to new things and embrace the changes that come with relocation.
iJapa.ng: Would you prefer that we publish your story anonymously?
Kem Kem: Yes.
iJapa.ng: Now that you are out of the country, how do you intend to contribute to the growth of Nigeria?
Kem Kem: If I return home, I intend to use my expertise to add value.
Kem Kem’s story is a testament to resilience and the pursuit of better opportunities. If you have a Japa story to share or know someone who does, connect with us at iJapa.ng and let’s inspire others together.
